No man is a healer to your pain—he did not cause it.
Stop expecting your partner to mend the wounds he never inflicted. Healing is not a transaction of affection; it is an inner dialogue of truth. A woman must stand before her mirror—not to correct her reflection, but to converse with the unseen self she once abandoned. She must vent the parts of her that were unloved, unheard, and unseen.
You do not have to earn love. You have to find peace, to end the cycle of the same old patterns. A shift begins the moment safety finds its space within. When she stops chasing approval, explanation, and belonging, she meets herself. She has not been saved by anyone—she has saved herself.
The Heartfulness Centre Within
She now lives in her thoracic heartfulness centre—where breath meets awareness, and love no longer demands performance. From this place she attracts a partner who honours her existence. She finds peace over pain, love over longing, and oneness over fragmentation. A woman’s healing is not solitary; it is ancestral. When she heals, her entire lineage shifts—both ancestors and descendants. Her energy matrix upgrades every low-frequency field that once tethered her.
The Healing Principles of the Feminine Matrix
- Build your quotient of love and light. Do not invite low-vibrational beings into your energy field.
- Understand the empath’s curse. Empaths often magnetise relationship disturbances—they feel others before feeling themselves.
- Merge light and shadow. Integration is faster than avoidance.
- Cut the umbilical cord of dependency. Define your goal, detach yet remain devoted.
- Seek self-mastery. Visualization and creation flow through disciplined peace, not anxious control.
Dreams: The Language of Ascension
My fears weaken when I aspire for higher ascension.
My doubts drown, and my hope elopes with me in tow.
My unknown path carries my bare feet—grounded in Mother Earth.
My trust in me did not rust; it forged my beginning.
The world was not ready to hear my tremor, but my whisper became my strength. Now I stand astute—with effort, faith, and grace.
The Masculine Woman: A Wound Disguised as Strength
Behind many powerful women lies a wounded girl taught that love is earned through performance. She wears masculinity as armour—not as essence. Encouraged by fathers who wished to make her strong, she learned discipline but lost softness. Her creativity was replaced by productivity. Her nurturing became numbness. These women impress mentors but struggle with men who exploit their unhealed power. They have never witnessed healthy feminine collaboration under healthy masculine guidance—and so, the cycle repeats: masculine women, feminized men, and families devoid of true polarity.
When Femininity Returns
The feminine essence is water and earth—fluid yet grounded, gentle yet vast. No woman truly wishes to be masculine; she only wishes to feel safe enough to be soft again. When she releases ego and control, her divinity reawakens. Her body glows, her aura softens, her radiance becomes her protection.
Woman, Your True Curriculum Vitae
Your CV is not your résumé—it is your vibration. You are:
– A caretaker and a creator,
– A giver and a visionary,
– A nurturer with a corporate mind,
– Compassion wrapped in strength,
– Light housed in form.
When woman embraces her inner balance, she heals nations. Her peace becomes the seed of evolution. Her heart becomes the home for humanity.
Closing Reflection
You need not chase love. You are love in motion, learning to rest. When she becomes heartful, she stops surviving and starts radiating. That is when the world begins to heal — through her.
Dr. Gouri Kumra ,
Spiritual & Creative Healer , Columnist
@ News365 Times
